It’s 4:48 AM. I can’t sleep because I am angry.
The baby woke me up, inexplicably, at 3:30 AM. Middle of the night wakings are not his style. He prefers a straight 12 hours of sleep, thank you very much.
While waiting for him to chatter his way back to sleep, Ismael came running into the bedroom. He wasn’t due home from work until 7 or 8 this morning. He was chattering too, but it wasn’t a good story.
He was robbed tonight at gunpoint. They took his wallet, his money, his backpack, his cell phone, and my fragile sense of security. At least, they chose not to take his life.
I have hated Ismael’s work for a long time now. Like many African immigrants in Indianapolis he has been working as a taxi driver. In fact 90% of the drivers in our city are African Muslims, like Ismael. The barriers to entry are low and you can earn a living. It’s not a good living that offers benefits, promotions, or vacation pay, but you can survive. Barely.
I understand why immigrants work these kinds of jobs. Getting something better, even before the recession, is not always easy. So many jobs that pay a decent wage require some kind of education: either vocational, technical, or academic. Those requirements are huge barriers to immigrants who come with little money and have no access to student loans and/or grants. Ismael originally came to go to school and had to drop out after learning how expensive it was. He went to work instead and eventually married a wonderful woman and had a beautiful baby. (yes, shameless self promotion here. It makes me feel a little better.)
I have hated this job for a myriad of reasons, but mainly because his long hours have destroyed any kind of routine family life that we once had. He works long hours, 12 hours a day, usually 6 days a week. He works all night and every night I sleep alone. I thought about demanding that he work days instead, but I realized that if he worked 7 am to 7 pm then he would never, ever see his son. That doesn’t seem like a fair demand just to prevent me from being lonely.
In the back of my mind, I am always worried about his safety. I worry that he will be in a bad accident. I worry that he will be robbed. I worry that he will be in the wrong place at the wrong time. I just worry. I call him in the night whenever I wake up and as long as I can get him on the phone, I feel better, safer. When he comes home every morning? I am relieved deep in my soul. And when he gets the baby and let’s me sleep? I’m in heaven!
I wasn’t relieved to see him this morning. I could tell right away something was wrong.
The first time these people requested a ride, he cancelled the run because the number they gave didn’t work. The second time they called, he was able to reach them by phone, so it seemed like a normal, safe run and he went. He pulled up to the address in the apartment complex and two men got into his cab.
They showed him a gun.
Demanded his money. Took his wallet. His bag. His phone. The car keys.
He pushed the emergency button in the cab. If he didn’t call the dispatcher within five minutes, the company would use the car’s GPS to locate him and send the police.
The two men left the cab with items that they didn’t work for, that didn’t belong to them, that they stole, and got into a waiting white van with another man and two women.
A Somali man who was nearby helped Ismael call the police and me. For some reason, my phone turned itself off in the middle of the night and he couldn’t reach me to come get him. A kind tow truck driver brought him home.
For their trouble the thieves got a phone that we will report stolen, a debit card that we have already turned off, a drivers’ license that will be an enormous pain in the butt to replace, and $100 that should have gone toward our phone bill and maybe a family dinner out tonight.
I hope they are satisfied.
I hope they get caught.
I hope they choke on their food, drugs, or whatever they buy with OUR money.
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Oh this is terrible!! I can’t imagine what you must be feeling right now. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
I’m so so sorry for you Janet. Our apartment was burglarized in New York in March and we lost 3 laptops, a TV, a Wii and a DVD player. Thankfully the justice system actually worked, and through fingerprints, they picked up the perp (who had a laundry list of a record). I was the first one home after it happened, and I felt so incredibly violated–without having even seen the person. I can’t imagine how Ismael must be feeling.
It is incredibly sad to me that so often it is “guests” in our country (not that your husband is a guest, but he is someone new(ish) to our country) who fall victim to these acts. Of course they happen to plenty of Americans too, but the vast majority happen due to circumstances which can’t be controlled by the people within them. Immigrants and uneducated, poor Americans find themselves working these kinds of jobs to make ends meet, many living in dangerous areas, surrounded by crime. It’s a shame that despite the assurances by government officials that people can lead perfectly safe and prosperous lives under these circumstances, the odds most certainly seem stacked against them at times.
This is really why I’m passionate about studying education policy. To me, the opportunities (or lack thereof) available to immigrants and to “high-risk”, low income children and families are the foundation of why so much of our business, industry and governmental infrastructure seem to be failing. We cannot continue to be the most powerful nation in the world if we continue to refuse to open our eyes to the fact that we are a nation FOUNDED on immigration and EQUAL OPPORTUNITY. I know many immigrants who work a hell of a lot harder in school than many Americans I know, because they understand the value of what they are getting. This is my passion–I am driven by the hope that I can affect some sort of change for these people and their children. Immigrant or not, no one should have to go to work afraid for his or her life. I know the world can’t be perfect, but we can sure as hell do a lot better than we’re doing now.
**Steps off soapbox** (sorry for the tangent-ridden rant!)
OH my goodness. HOw terrifying and horrible. I am so sick of people who take instead of working for things. I work four jobs so that I can help provide for my family. They should try getting one legit job! I’m so sorry for you and your family!!
I’m so sorry to hear this horrible news, and I’m so very happy that Ismael is ok himself. I just don’t know what to say…it is so awful.
OMG, I don’t know how I missed this, but I’m so so sorry that it happened. I’m glad that Ismael is ok, but this is just infuriating. I don’t blame you for being angry. It makes me angry, too.